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Knowledge is the first step in recognizing domestic violence and seeking help.

What does domestic violence look like?

There is no single agreed-upon definition for domestic violence, as definitions are inconsistent between jurisdictions reporting statistics (i.e. city and county) as well as sectors (nonprofits, government, healthcare, etc.). Thus, a broad definition of domestic violence, also sometimes referred to as family violence is used and encouraged. Domestic violence is violence or abuse in any form, by one person against another in a domestic (i.e. family) setting, and includes intimate partner violence which is one specific type of domestic violence. DV is a leading cause of homicides in Spokane County.

With a goal of reducing the high rates of domestic and family violence in our community, End the Violence Coalition began strategic planning in Summer 2020. Partnering with over 45 stakeholders—including service providers, law enforcement, and survivors—they identified resources, gaps, and opportunities to address these issues. Victim-survivors shared their experiences, highlighting emotional abuse (90%), intimidation (84%), gaslighting (81%), and physical abuse (69%), with 55% indicating their abuser had access to firearms. This is critical, as firearms are the leading cause of domestic violence-related homicides. Victim-survivors use many strategies to protect themselves, their children, and pets, both while living with an abuser and when planning to leave.

Examples of protection and seeking help

Some of the things that victim-survivors have reported doing when faced with domestic violence include:

Victim-survivors often face barriers to finding safety, including emotional hurdles like fear of not being believed or fear of escalating violence if they try to leave. Tangible obstacles, such as financial instability, lack of shelter, and having children with the abuser, also complicate the process, along with concerns about support systems and distrust of law enforcement. Understanding these experiences is a key step in End the Violence Coalition’s efforts to prevent violence in Spokane. Together, we can work to prevent violence, increase safety, and encourage access to equitable services for all people in our community.

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